(Source: jellyfrey)
“Immature in the sense of waiting or wanting some magical daddy or rescuer to see you and really know and understand you and care as much about you as a child’s parents do, and save you. Save you from yourself. This is how immaturity shows up in young woman and girls; in men it’s somewhat different in how it looks, but really it’s all the same, which is wanting to be distracted from what you’ve lost and be fixed and saved by somebody. Which is pretty banal like something out of a doctor’s textbook. That’s everybody’s core problem, and it’s why girls are so obsessed with prettiness and whether they can attract somebody and arouse enough love in that person to save them. It’s a neat little trap they’ve made for themselves to ensure that they never really have to grow up and can stay immature and waiting forever for somebody to save them because they’d never be able to find out that nobody else can save them because they made it impossible for them to get what they need and deserve so they could always be angry and could always get to go around thinking that the real problem was that no one could ever see or love the real them the way they needed so they would always have this problem to sit on hold and stroke it and and really believe that it is the real problem. Pretty banal, eh? DFW (The Pale King) but also really really fitting for the ‘God Complex’ and for the relationship between Amy and the Doctor (via bluestofblue)
Yes.
(via jellyfrey)
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